Last night, Greg called and told me that his Mom has offered to us, Amelia and me, to move into their place for two months. Greg's Mom brought this up; Greg didn't ask or approach her about this option, this was all on her! We were both rather surprised, especially since she rejected the idea without a second thought earlier this year.
So, it looks like I will be moving in with Greg and his family, probably this coming weekend and next.
Greg doesn't want to apply for the condo that we looked at on Saturday. He feels he would be settling if we moved there and he doesn't want to settle.
This morning, I tried calling my Mom to let her know what the new plan is, but I dial Greg's cell phone by accident (force of habit since both Greg's number and my Mom's cell number start with '443-9'), so we chatted for a few minutes and we talked about the plan of me moving in with them and that I mentioned that Denise is dying to see Amelia and that I'm sure she was planning on flying in this summer (Greg's mom has no desire to meet Denise, much less have her in her home) and that is when Greg mentioned "That was your big surprise". Apparently, Greg and Denise have talked and/or planned on a trip to Michigan in August! But, with all the trouble we've had with finding a place to live, Greg wasn't sure it was going to happen. So, if we do move in with his Mom for a couple of months, it more than likely will happen! This is exciting, yet nerve wracking and the reason being is Greg is debating on whether to fly or drive to Michigan. I say fly, but Greg isn't sure how Amelia will do with the flight, but we have an appointment with Amelia's Pediatrician this Friday and we're going to ask then.
Earlier today, I found a house for rent in Pasadena and I called and left a message. I sent Greg an email about the ad and he said he thinks we should try.
Ok, so I am feeling a bit conflicted:
Greg's Mom is charging us to live at the current location. Granted, Greg already pays a portion of the bills and rent, but my conflict is how much she's going to be charging me. Yes, it's less than what I am currently paying (the rate includes the utilities and food), but I don't feel that I am going to be using that much for the rate she's charging. Greg and I are going to probably spend 90% of our time in his bedroom since that is the only place where we would have privacy and I just don't think the total amount that Greg and I are going to be paying is fair for what we're actually receiving. But, at the same time, we don't have to pay for utilities or groceries (at least I don't think we're paying for groceries), yet, then again, Greg and I are only getting a bedroom to call our own rather than an entire condo/house. Ugh, so conflicted. But, after talking it out with a co-worker, I guess it all makes sense on the price when it's broken down. I guess I'm not happy with only having a bedroom as my only place of space.
Greg's job is relocating him to a different shop in Baltimore for the rest of the week. The shop doesn't have internet access which means Greg and I won't be able to email each other and I hate calling him while he's at work. But, I did give Greg my DS in case he get's bored.
Well, the day is finally coming to an end. I have done some work, it has been sorta busy, but I've been mostly thinking and chatting online with Melissa (love the new email set up from Y!). I have a lot more to write about, but I've run outta time (it's 5:55pm as I finish).
Showing posts with label surprises. Show all posts
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09 July 2007
13 June 2007
Surprises and Father's Day
This weekend is Father's Day, as you may know. Along with buying Greg his ice tea maker, I've bought 2 tickets to the Orioles for Sunday!! The seats are in Section 98 Row B and on the end. That's as close to the field as I could get. Greg doesn't know that I've bought the tickets, so they are a surprise. Sssshhhhh!! LOL I am also planning on treating him to all food and drinks as well. I did confirm that I can bring my own water for Amelia's bottles and that I don't have to buy a ticket for her. This should be interesting; Amelia's first game. I am going to see if I can Nick Markakis or Tejada to 'sign my baby'. If I could get one of their autographs for Greg, I bet that would make his day!
A surprise that I learned from Greg was that he was telling/showing a co-worker of his, Brooke, of where we, as in Greg and I, are going for a honeymoon! This leads me to believe that Greg, 1. is sharing personal information with his co-workers, such as feelings for me and our future, and 2. he is looking forward to marrying me; even so that he's sharing the honeymoon plans with co-workers! This amazed me last night because Greg is one of those people that likes to keep family, friends, and co-workers separate from each other. I learned that a long time ago. But, after last night's discussion, he's changing and integrating everyone! This makes me happy. Besides, Brooke told Greg that we are perfect for each other because we're both smart asses. Oh, that silly Brooke!
Ok, there are about 2 weeks left until the move. I am getting more and more excited! Unfortunately, these next two weekends are already busy. On Saturday, Greg and I are going to open the new checking accounts at Wachovia and Sunday is the Baseball game. Next Saturday is my cousin April's baby shower down in Waldorf. So, I am thinking that after Greg and I go to the bank on Saturday, we're going to start bagging, boxing, and tubing things. There really isn't all that much to move since we've both moved in the last 12 months. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about my 1200lb couch and Greg isn't taking his couch-like things because Pat, Greg's other brother, is giving us his couches! So, out of the townhouse, I am moving my bedroom stuff and the dining room table and chairs as well as a few kitchen items (plates, pots/pans, microwave, etc). We should be able to do it all in the afternoon.
Last night, I moved all my private posts from my Y! 360 blog to my 'secret garden' as I'm calling it, and re-opened the Y! 360 blog. It was interesting to read all the stuff I wrote about in March and April. My god, was I emotionally nuts back then. I feel, that with each month/cycle, my emotions are becoming a little more stable. So far, *knock on wood* I don't feel as insecure about some things that I did last month, but at the same time, I haven't started my cycle, yet (and I know it's on the way because my appetite has increased significantly, my lower back hurts, especially on the left side, I am feeling a little crampy, etc). So, we shall see how the week goes. At least my cycle will be over in time for moving; I hope. I didn't take my active pill on Sunday and I still haven't started. But, no matter what, I am going to start my new pack this coming Sunday.
Yesterday, at work, I ran across a very fascinating blog about infertility. The lady has an amazing writing and story telling style! I was completely engulfed in her blog and was reading from the very beginning. I plan on finishing up today (thankfully, we're fully staffed and the calls have died down some).
For a while, after the doctor told me that it would be nearly impossible for me to conceive on my own due to PCOS, I researched infertility treatments and Adam and I even talked about seeing a specialist just to get an idea of what our options would be when we were ready. Obviously, something changed from 2002 to 2006. It's 'weird' to think, but Adam and I were together for nearly 8 years and we never became pregnant; Greg and I were 'together' for 8 months and I become pregnant. Hmm, makes one think ... guess we'll never know... Anyway, there is hope for those out there that have been told 'you can not conceive naturally.'
A surprise that I learned from Greg was that he was telling/showing a co-worker of his, Brooke, of where we, as in Greg and I, are going for a honeymoon! This leads me to believe that Greg, 1. is sharing personal information with his co-workers, such as feelings for me and our future, and 2. he is looking forward to marrying me; even so that he's sharing the honeymoon plans with co-workers! This amazed me last night because Greg is one of those people that likes to keep family, friends, and co-workers separate from each other. I learned that a long time ago. But, after last night's discussion, he's changing and integrating everyone! This makes me happy. Besides, Brooke told Greg that we are perfect for each other because we're both smart asses. Oh, that silly Brooke!
Ok, there are about 2 weeks left until the move. I am getting more and more excited! Unfortunately, these next two weekends are already busy. On Saturday, Greg and I are going to open the new checking accounts at Wachovia and Sunday is the Baseball game. Next Saturday is my cousin April's baby shower down in Waldorf. So, I am thinking that after Greg and I go to the bank on Saturday, we're going to start bagging, boxing, and tubing things. There really isn't all that much to move since we've both moved in the last 12 months. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about my 1200lb couch and Greg isn't taking his couch-like things because Pat, Greg's other brother, is giving us his couches! So, out of the townhouse, I am moving my bedroom stuff and the dining room table and chairs as well as a few kitchen items (plates, pots/pans, microwave, etc). We should be able to do it all in the afternoon.
Last night, I moved all my private posts from my Y! 360 blog to my 'secret garden' as I'm calling it, and re-opened the Y! 360 blog. It was interesting to read all the stuff I wrote about in March and April. My god, was I emotionally nuts back then. I feel, that with each month/cycle, my emotions are becoming a little more stable. So far, *knock on wood* I don't feel as insecure about some things that I did last month, but at the same time, I haven't started my cycle, yet (and I know it's on the way because my appetite has increased significantly, my lower back hurts, especially on the left side, I am feeling a little crampy, etc). So, we shall see how the week goes. At least my cycle will be over in time for moving; I hope. I didn't take my active pill on Sunday and I still haven't started. But, no matter what, I am going to start my new pack this coming Sunday.
Yesterday, at work, I ran across a very fascinating blog about infertility. The lady has an amazing writing and story telling style! I was completely engulfed in her blog and was reading from the very beginning. I plan on finishing up today (thankfully, we're fully staffed and the calls have died down some).
For a while, after the doctor told me that it would be nearly impossible for me to conceive on my own due to PCOS, I researched infertility treatments and Adam and I even talked about seeing a specialist just to get an idea of what our options would be when we were ready. Obviously, something changed from 2002 to 2006. It's 'weird' to think, but Adam and I were together for nearly 8 years and we never became pregnant; Greg and I were 'together' for 8 months and I become pregnant. Hmm, makes one think ... guess we'll never know... Anyway, there is hope for those out there that have been told 'you can not conceive naturally.'
07 June 2007
The past 7 days in review...
Last Thursday was when my 1996 Pontiac died on me on the BW Parkway with a little over 190K miles. Exactly 7 days later, I am driving a 2006 Nissan with a little over 27K miles!. I upgraded my car by 10 years, although I downgraded my features.
I forgot how much fun, and nerve wracking, it is to drive stick! When I test drove the car at the dealership, I had a little hesitations about the car, but once I was in it and driving all the 'memories' of knowing how to drive stick came flooding back and I had no hesitations about choosing that car.
Going through finance was interesting. First, Greg and I waited for nearly an hour. Poor Amelia was so tired. It was after 9:30pm by the time we got to talk to the finance people. The first 'offer' was for a 48 month payment at $458 a month! Greg and I were like, what the hell! Because, when we arrived at the dealership, we told the sales person what price range of a car and payment we can afford, all at the very beginning of the whole process. So, when the finance lady said her first offer, we were kinda pissed because we didn't want to waste our time with something we weren't going to be able to afford. After a little more negotiation, the finance lady made a 'final' offer of $305 for a monthly payment. Again, Greg and I were telling them what we could afford and even bargained for a monthly payment of $275 max. The finance lady asked if we could put an additional $400 down and we said no since I increased my initial down payment of $800 to $1000. After they hemmed and hawed, Greg and I were like, "it's late and we're tired. We can't afford your payment option and we can't increase our down payment. We'll try Carmax since we know that there is a lender out there that will finance me." At that point, the finance lady told us to wait for a few minutes and she came back and took $400 off the total price in order to get my monthly payment to $278!
By 10:30pm, Greg and I were leaving the Antwerpen Nissan dealership and heading home (Greg was driving the rental car and was driving back to his office since he forgot his overnight bag in his car). I got home around 11pm and brought Sean and Aaron out to check out the new car. Currently, of all the people in my family, I drive the most current car (by year). Usually, I was the one that drove the oldest car.
This morning, I called the bank to check my balance. I was expecting it to be in the negative but to my delight, it was in the positive and well over any amount I was expecting! My ING withdrawal came through hella early! I was expecting it to come in something next week or the week after! I closed the account on Tuesday and had the money Thursday! Way to go ING!
Just to recap:
The bad in the last 7 days:
- Sitting on the side of 295 for 4 hours
- Learning that my car needs a new engine and that it would cost $5200
- Having to pay over $300 for a car rental
- All the stress that I went through about the car
The good that has happened in the last 7 days:
- Greg and I finally finding a place to live together
- Sean and Aaron moving to the same complex
- Actually being approved for financing a car
- Buying my very first car (and doing so all by myself)
- Receiving my IRA 2 weeks sooner than expected
- Paying everything with the IRA check AND still have more than enough money at the end of the month for the move and expenses related (security deposit, first months rent, u-haul rental, etc)
So, in review, even though the week started out horribly and I was very miserable, it has ended amazingly. I am feeling really good right now.
Want to hear something funny? Ok, well I have this magic 8-ball. I'm sure I've mentioned it before. Anyway, on Monday night, I asked the magic 8-ball if I should finance a car and it said 'yes' (or something along those lines), then I asked it if I would be approved for a finance load and again it said 'yes'. I was skeptical, of course. But, lately, that damn magic 8-ball has been pretty accurate. Remember the condo Greg and I were considering to rent? Well, after Greg and I checked out the place, I asked the magic 8-ball if Greg and I were going to move to the condo and it said 'no'. I asked that question and other variations of it numerous times over a few days and each time the response was 'no'. Greg and I were really hoping to get the condo, so it was kind of a bummer to keep getting the 'no' response. I believe on the 29th of May, Greg called the condo guy to check on the status of the application. Condo guy never called Greg back. Then, on Wednesday, I was approved at the townhouse complex and Greg and I checked the place out on Saturday, June 2, and decided to move there instead of the condo. On Sunday, the condo guy calls Greg and asks if we were still interested in the condo and Greg said no. Freaky, isn't it? Also, I've asked the magic 8-ball if Greg is going to propose to me in the next 12 months and every time I ask that, the response is always 'yes' or positive. Now, do I actually believe this.... mmmm... a little yes and a little no. It's nice to pretend but at the same time I am being realistic. I won't be upset if Greg doesn't propose to me within the next 12 months, but it is nice to day dream about it.
Speaking of 'surprises', over the weekend I told Greg that I haven't heard from Denise in a while and asked if he had. He said that he's talked to her off and on, via email, during the week. She's helping him with some sort of surprise for me!! Of course I thought it was for her opinion on a engagement ring and he knew that was the first thing I thought about but said that isn't what they are talking about. Then I asked if they were planning a trip to MD or if we were planning a trip to Michigan and he said no to both. He won't tell me what they are planning!! I am thinking it's a trip of some sort. But, it is exciting to know that Greg is thinking about me in that sense. Especially since he wants to really surprise me! I can't wait to see what it is.
We finally have a crib for Amelia and a dresser all of her own! My Grandma's brother and his wife gave Greg and I the crib and dresser. My mom picked up the other day and she's painting it for Amelia. She's going to do a garden motif. I can't wait to see the end result. My mom is a wonderful artist. When Greg and I get our own home, Mom is going to paint murals in Amelia's room and the bathroom. At the house in Churchton, Mom painted the bathroom as if it were under the water. There where whales, sharks, fishes, starfish, plant life, all of it. It looked really amazing. I think Mom could start her won business painting murals for people.
I really hope the next three weeks go smoothly.
I forgot how much fun, and nerve wracking, it is to drive stick! When I test drove the car at the dealership, I had a little hesitations about the car, but once I was in it and driving all the 'memories' of knowing how to drive stick came flooding back and I had no hesitations about choosing that car.
Going through finance was interesting. First, Greg and I waited for nearly an hour. Poor Amelia was so tired. It was after 9:30pm by the time we got to talk to the finance people. The first 'offer' was for a 48 month payment at $458 a month! Greg and I were like, what the hell! Because, when we arrived at the dealership, we told the sales person what price range of a car and payment we can afford, all at the very beginning of the whole process. So, when the finance lady said her first offer, we were kinda pissed because we didn't want to waste our time with something we weren't going to be able to afford. After a little more negotiation, the finance lady made a 'final' offer of $305 for a monthly payment. Again, Greg and I were telling them what we could afford and even bargained for a monthly payment of $275 max. The finance lady asked if we could put an additional $400 down and we said no since I increased my initial down payment of $800 to $1000. After they hemmed and hawed, Greg and I were like, "it's late and we're tired. We can't afford your payment option and we can't increase our down payment. We'll try Carmax since we know that there is a lender out there that will finance me." At that point, the finance lady told us to wait for a few minutes and she came back and took $400 off the total price in order to get my monthly payment to $278!
By 10:30pm, Greg and I were leaving the Antwerpen Nissan dealership and heading home (Greg was driving the rental car and was driving back to his office since he forgot his overnight bag in his car). I got home around 11pm and brought Sean and Aaron out to check out the new car. Currently, of all the people in my family, I drive the most current car (by year). Usually, I was the one that drove the oldest car.
This morning, I called the bank to check my balance. I was expecting it to be in the negative but to my delight, it was in the positive and well over any amount I was expecting! My ING withdrawal came through hella early! I was expecting it to come in something next week or the week after! I closed the account on Tuesday and had the money Thursday! Way to go ING!
Just to recap:
The bad in the last 7 days:
- Sitting on the side of 295 for 4 hours
- Learning that my car needs a new engine and that it would cost $5200
- Having to pay over $300 for a car rental
- All the stress that I went through about the car
The good that has happened in the last 7 days:
- Greg and I finally finding a place to live together
- Sean and Aaron moving to the same complex
- Actually being approved for financing a car
- Buying my very first car (and doing so all by myself)
- Receiving my IRA 2 weeks sooner than expected
- Paying everything with the IRA check AND still have more than enough money at the end of the month for the move and expenses related (security deposit, first months rent, u-haul rental, etc)
So, in review, even though the week started out horribly and I was very miserable, it has ended amazingly. I am feeling really good right now.
Want to hear something funny? Ok, well I have this magic 8-ball. I'm sure I've mentioned it before. Anyway, on Monday night, I asked the magic 8-ball if I should finance a car and it said 'yes' (or something along those lines), then I asked it if I would be approved for a finance load and again it said 'yes'. I was skeptical, of course. But, lately, that damn magic 8-ball has been pretty accurate. Remember the condo Greg and I were considering to rent? Well, after Greg and I checked out the place, I asked the magic 8-ball if Greg and I were going to move to the condo and it said 'no'. I asked that question and other variations of it numerous times over a few days and each time the response was 'no'. Greg and I were really hoping to get the condo, so it was kind of a bummer to keep getting the 'no' response. I believe on the 29th of May, Greg called the condo guy to check on the status of the application. Condo guy never called Greg back. Then, on Wednesday, I was approved at the townhouse complex and Greg and I checked the place out on Saturday, June 2, and decided to move there instead of the condo. On Sunday, the condo guy calls Greg and asks if we were still interested in the condo and Greg said no. Freaky, isn't it? Also, I've asked the magic 8-ball if Greg is going to propose to me in the next 12 months and every time I ask that, the response is always 'yes' or positive. Now, do I actually believe this.... mmmm... a little yes and a little no. It's nice to pretend but at the same time I am being realistic. I won't be upset if Greg doesn't propose to me within the next 12 months, but it is nice to day dream about it.
Speaking of 'surprises', over the weekend I told Greg that I haven't heard from Denise in a while and asked if he had. He said that he's talked to her off and on, via email, during the week. She's helping him with some sort of surprise for me!! Of course I thought it was for her opinion on a engagement ring and he knew that was the first thing I thought about but said that isn't what they are talking about. Then I asked if they were planning a trip to MD or if we were planning a trip to Michigan and he said no to both. He won't tell me what they are planning!! I am thinking it's a trip of some sort. But, it is exciting to know that Greg is thinking about me in that sense. Especially since he wants to really surprise me! I can't wait to see what it is.
We finally have a crib for Amelia and a dresser all of her own! My Grandma's brother and his wife gave Greg and I the crib and dresser. My mom picked up the other day and she's painting it for Amelia. She's going to do a garden motif. I can't wait to see the end result. My mom is a wonderful artist. When Greg and I get our own home, Mom is going to paint murals in Amelia's room and the bathroom. At the house in Churchton, Mom painted the bathroom as if it were under the water. There where whales, sharks, fishes, starfish, plant life, all of it. It looked really amazing. I think Mom could start her won business painting murals for people.
I really hope the next three weeks go smoothly.
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