Today is payday.
And, my money is all gone.
Why?
I MADE MY FIRST CAR PAYMENT LAST NIGHT!
I am so adult right now, it's freaky.
After I made the car payment, I headed over to my credit card site to make their payment, but the system was down. Though, I did learn that they gave me a $100 credit increase! Hot damn!
Last night, I had an interesting chat with an old friend, Ed. Ed and I met in 2004. We met online and hung out on a simi-regular basis. I haven't seen Ed since June of 06, when he helped me clean my apartment before I moved to where I am leaving from this weekend. Ed and I did the "FWB" thing a few times, so all was good. I, at one point in time, did start to develop a 'crush' on Ed, but after I learned that he had feelings for another women (and has had feelings for her for over ten years), I knew that there wouldn't be anything more between us.
But, Ed wrote a few interesting things last night on Y! Messenger that has got me wondering; here are a few:
I said: Jessica (11:55 PM): yeah, I didn’t take it personally or anything. No hard feelings, I promise
Ed said: ********_evil (11:56 PM): I know- you’re so sweet, thats why I liked being with you
Hmm... he liked being with me? I knew we got a long pretty well, though we never went out; we just hung out in my apartment and chatted and 'whatnot'.
Then, he stated:
******_evil (12:09 AM): looks like you lost more weight in your pic- looking good!
Ed found me on MySpace, though never added me as friend (until last night), so who knows how long he's been checking me out. LOL
Then, in conclusion he wrote (as we were saying good night):
********_evil (12:31 AM): bye, Jess- LOVE YA!
Ok, from my past experience with guys, when it's the platonic 'love', they spell it as LUV, right? So, here we see Ed spelling it as LOVE...
I'm not reading into anything that isn't there (or I least I don't think it's there), don't get me wrong. But, I just thought it was interesting. Once Ed and I said our good byes, I went upstairs and told Greg about the conversation and he said that it sounded like Ed wants something that he can't have, being well aware that I am in a relationship. I guess that is possibly true, I don't know.
So, it was probably around midnight when I went to bed last night and I was some how awake and packing up my room by 7am. I was rudely awoken around 6:40 by my brother who was doing something with the hallway closet door.
Last night, Sean and I pretty much packed up the kitchen. We fought over the pots and pans because we both brought in a new set (I had received a nice set from my Grandma as a Christmas present and Sean said he bought a new set not too long before we moved in) when we moved. I stated one set was mine and he said it was his. Finally, I got the set that I stated as mine and he's taking the other set to Good Will and then he's going to buy his own new set. Then, we went through the dishes, which were all mine, except for a few bowls that he didn't want. We're donating a lot of things to Good Will, such as a dresser, entertainment unit, kitchen items and some of Amelia's clothes that are too small.
After the kitchen, I headed up stairs to start there as well, but ended up laying on the bed with Greg watching Hackers and playing DD (to which I later went down stairs once I realized that I had forgotten to make my credit card payment and then ended up talking with Ed for a about a half hour).
*Update*
I didn't quite finish the entry when I posted it. I became busy and didn't want to leave everyone hanging for something to read from me.
In any event, it's now the last hour of the work day (5:00pm est) and I've talked to Greg, Sean, and my Mom a few times. Greg is working at a different shop today and is hella bored and not motivated to work; he should be heading to the townhouse as I type. Sean, went to the Good Will and dropped off some items and then had to wait until 5 pm to even start moving items into his new place; in the meantime, he and Aaron took apart the couch (which is a huge sectional with a queen size sofa and a recliner all built in and weighs 12 tons, little exaggeration) and loaded that into the u-haul. Mom, when I last talked to her, was on her way to Sean's new place (though stuck in traffic in Crofton); to which I gave her general directions to.
In the meantime, I've been here, at work, answering so many phone calls since I am the only person in the queue. Yay.
I've been debating on whether or not to send an email to the condo guy to check on the status of our application, but I am too nervous because I fear another rejection. But, I am trying to be opptomistic and keep saying to myself "No news is good news", that is until I do get 'the news'. Greg seems to be handling this 'waiting' rather well, but he's more focused on the move than I am, or so it seems.
Mom's flight to Vegas leaves at like 6am tomorrow. She and her friends are renting a hotel room tonight so they can arrive to the airport at the same time. Mom is returning home on Tuesday, the 24th, at like 8pm. Greg and I have volunteered to pick Mom up from the airport (like he would pass on an opportunity to hang out at BWI)and take her to her car so she can head home. Then, on Wednesday, since I have the day off, I am going to take Amelia down to mom's so she can watch her and give Greg and I a break (of paying for the babysitter). I am very thankful that Mom hasn't gone back to work because without her help in watching Amelia, I have no idea what I would have done those few times we needed a babysitter.
I don't know what the full plan is tonight with where we're sleeping and what not. I believe, that I am going to spend the night at Greg's and start doing laundry and stuff, after we load up our cars and the truck, and then on Saturday go back to the townhouse to get the last of anything and finial cleaning. Ugh, this weekend might be hell. But, at least when Greg and I are ready to move out, as soon as we find a place, there won't be as much work. I hope.
Wish us luck that we're going to hear back from the condo guy and he's going to say "So, when do you three want to sign the lease and move in?"
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
20 July 2007
02 July 2007
Have ya been looking for me?
Probably not. I haven't received that many hits in the last few days.
So, it's been a busy three days!
My brothers laptop is out of commission, so I haven't been able to write nor upload all the great pics I've taken.
So, here are the last three days in review:
Friday:
Greg and I had a few serious discussion about our living situation. We talked about our back up planl; moving to Churchton. What's in Churchton you wonder? Well, there is a house that belongs to my parents that is currently vacant. I spent the last 12 years of my 'childhood' in Churchton (from 7th grade until I moved out in 2002). The house is on a little over three acres of land and on the water. Beautiful views. But, the house has been vacant for a little over two years and is in need of work, mainly yard work; which Greg is very excited about, for now.
After our discussion of options, we headed down to Annapolis to the court house where I filed my divorce papers. Now, I just wait for the Master List and then we're almost done. Wow. This is really happening. I have no real emotional feelings about this divorce. I guess I'll be happy to have everything complete and not have to worry about anything anymore.
Once we were done with Annapolis, I called my Mom to tell her we were about to get on Rt 50 and she said Amelia was still asleep and to take our time heading down. So, Greg and I decided to stop by the Churchton house. Greg and I walked around the place. I took some picutres. And, in the end, Greg seemed rather excited about moving here. All the pros outweigh the cons.
After about twenty minutes of looking at the property, we head down to Waldorf to pick Amelia up. Mom called just as we were leaving Churchton and said she was already in La Plata! I told her she said we could take our time. In any event, she beat us to the meet-up location (Hong Kong Buffet, Greg's favorite chinese buffet). On the way to Waldorf, I called my Cousin April to see if she wanted to meet us at the Buffet and she said yea. Greg and I arrived at the Buffet about 5pm ish and hang out until 6:30 ish. We, April Mom and I mainly, talked about birthing babies since April is due any week. Traffic was a breeze on the way home. And, honestly, I can't remember what we did after that.
Saturday:
Greg and I slept really late on Saturday. Say, like until noon! Even Amelia slept that late. She did wake up around 9 for a feeding, but she went back to sleep like the rest of us.
Greg and I putted around the townhouse for a couple of hours and then headed up to Best Buy in Glen Burnie. We wanted to look at toys and appliances for the possible Churchton move. I found a really nice camera for only $249 that I would like.
After Best Buy, Greg and I headed over to Benningan's for a late lunch. While there, my friend Daniel calls to tell me that he's in town! Daniel moved to Florida in March of 06. He came up in Sept of 06, and we went out and had fun. So, Daniel made his way to Bennigan's and we hung out for the rest of the day! I had a blast with him. Greg stayed until about 9:00pm. After Bennigan's we all headed back to the townhouse and Greg took care of Amelia while Daniel and I chatted and got caught up in the gossip and such. Daniel was asking a thousand and twelve questions about Greg and I. Last year, before Daniel moved to Fl, he told me that Greg likes me more than a friend and I was like 'yeah right' and such. Daniel knew that I was starting to like Greg around that time as well. So, Daniel is so excited that Greg and I are togehter (and it's not because of Amelia, as Daniel wanted to make sure). All the while Daniel and I were chatting, Amelia was very fussy upstairs. So, Daniel and I went upstairs to help Greg. Amelia flirted with Daniel so much, it was cute. Daniel took tons of pictures of Amelia and me, or Amelia and him. I told Daniel that Greg and I were looking at a camera very simular to the one Daniel had, so it was nice to acutally get to play with the camera. Daniel also showed me his 'cool toys', referring to his new laptop, PSP, and other accessories. Greg fell in love with the headphones Daniel had for the PSP. I, fell in love with the PSP; I've been wanting one of those for years. Daniel has just bought the PSP so he didn't have any games or anything for it; just the movie that he watched on the flight up. So, I was playing around with the PSP and then Daniel tells me that I can have it! He doesn't use it enough to want it. Daniel gave me his PSP!!! Daniel spoils me so much! He's given me his surround sound system, iPod Nano, his PSP, and he said that once his gets the laptop he wants (the one he brought was a gift from his dad and isn't want he wanted), he's going to give me that as well! Of course, I'm not going to be counting on the laptop to happen anytime soon. But still! Greg was telling me to give the PSP back to Daniel and Daniel kept telling Greg that he doesn't want it. So, I have a new toy! Which is cool because Greg spent a good chunk of the weekend playing Diner Dash on the DS. Yep, that's right; Greg is hooked on Diner Dash! I knew I would get him.
Later in the night, after Amelia was finally asleep and Greg at home, Daniel and I sat outside and chatted. While we were outside, some neighbors were setting off fireworks (the ones not allowed into MD). Daniel and I were outside until sometime after 11 and then I went to McD's to get us some snackages. After the snackages, Daniel took a nap and I stayed up to make sure he woke up to get Cory. About 12:30am, Daniel left and I went to bed (after calling Greg).
Sunday:
Sunday was great! The weather was awesome!
I had a slow start in the morning. Amelia slept until 8:30am. We ate and played until 9:30 and then she took a nap until 10:30 (and I took a nap right along side her). Once the nap was over, Amelia and I hung out with Sean and Aaron who were setting up the internet on the PSP (I didn't know the Network Key to set it up and since Sean's laptop is out of order... well, you know). Once that was all done, we were playing with the PSP and Aaron's PS3 and trying to sync them. But, I need to upgrade my software in order to do so. So, I worked on that but I was unable to complete because I didn't have enough battery power left. So, I left it alone for the rest of the day.
Once we were all done playing with the PSP/PS3, I ran out to Hardee's to pick up food. Sean and Aaron hate picking up food, but they don't mind paying for my order if I go get it. I am so loved by them. I swear I don't know what they are going to do once we've all moved our seperate ways. So, after we ate, I took my shower and played with Amelia until she fell asleep. At which I started to get everything together for the Rolston Social Club!! The first Sunday of every month, Tim and Brooke host the Rolston Social Club. Greg and I went back in May, missed June, and then we went yesterday.
We arrive at the party a little after 2:30 and hang out outside. Good times were had by all. I took some really great pictures and I can't wait to upload them, as soon as Sean fixes the laptop.
Greg and I stayed until 7ish and head home. I don't get home until around 8pm and when I arrived, we had guests! Sean and Aaron had invited Deb and Alex, their new friends. We hung out and chatted for a bit. I put Amelia to bed around 8:30 and then hung out some more. We ordered pizza, ate and had a merry time.
I went to bed around 10:30 and the rest is history.
Today, Monday, has been pretty low key. I've been catching up on work and voicemails all the while working on this entry. I've also been 'window shopping' on eBay for some movies, games, and accessories for the PSP. So far, all I've bought was a charger since Daniel left his at home in FL. Also, I am thinking of buying a new cell phone off eBay. I am so frustrated with my current phone, a Sony Ericsson. My previous phone was a Sony Ericsson and I am having the same problems and I had with the other model. So, I am done with this brand. I am looking into LG and Samsung. Nokia doesn't offer anything interesting and I don't like the set up and layout of Motorola. I am very picky when it comes to my cell phones. It's really sad when I think about it.
I am so ecited about or plans for Tuesday night. A group of us (99.9% of Greg's friends/co-workers) are getting together to see Transformers in Columbia. I have never been a group date this big! I believe Greg said something along the lines of nearly 30 people! So much fun!!!
It makes me feel really good that Greg has opened up so much in including me in his 'other' life. I get along smashingly with Greg's co-workers (all of them) and when we were at Tim and Brooke's party last night, I had a great time! Tim and Brooke's friends are so funny! I can't wait to upload the pictures from the party.
When Greg and I first became friends he did not want me to meet any of his co-workers, who were his 'other' friends. He liked to keep everything and everyone seperate. Now a days, he's asking me if I want to go to so and so's party, or a group outting and things related. It just makes me feel special that he's including me.
Well, I am going to do more 'window shopping' on eBay. Have a great Monday!
So, it's been a busy three days!
My brothers laptop is out of commission, so I haven't been able to write nor upload all the great pics I've taken.
So, here are the last three days in review:
Friday:
Greg and I had a few serious discussion about our living situation. We talked about our back up planl; moving to Churchton. What's in Churchton you wonder? Well, there is a house that belongs to my parents that is currently vacant. I spent the last 12 years of my 'childhood' in Churchton (from 7th grade until I moved out in 2002). The house is on a little over three acres of land and on the water. Beautiful views. But, the house has been vacant for a little over two years and is in need of work, mainly yard work; which Greg is very excited about, for now.
After our discussion of options, we headed down to Annapolis to the court house where I filed my divorce papers. Now, I just wait for the Master List and then we're almost done. Wow. This is really happening. I have no real emotional feelings about this divorce. I guess I'll be happy to have everything complete and not have to worry about anything anymore.
Once we were done with Annapolis, I called my Mom to tell her we were about to get on Rt 50 and she said Amelia was still asleep and to take our time heading down. So, Greg and I decided to stop by the Churchton house. Greg and I walked around the place. I took some picutres. And, in the end, Greg seemed rather excited about moving here. All the pros outweigh the cons.
After about twenty minutes of looking at the property, we head down to Waldorf to pick Amelia up. Mom called just as we were leaving Churchton and said she was already in La Plata! I told her she said we could take our time. In any event, she beat us to the meet-up location (Hong Kong Buffet, Greg's favorite chinese buffet). On the way to Waldorf, I called my Cousin April to see if she wanted to meet us at the Buffet and she said yea. Greg and I arrived at the Buffet about 5pm ish and hang out until 6:30 ish. We, April Mom and I mainly, talked about birthing babies since April is due any week. Traffic was a breeze on the way home. And, honestly, I can't remember what we did after that.
Saturday:
Greg and I slept really late on Saturday. Say, like until noon! Even Amelia slept that late. She did wake up around 9 for a feeding, but she went back to sleep like the rest of us.
Greg and I putted around the townhouse for a couple of hours and then headed up to Best Buy in Glen Burnie. We wanted to look at toys and appliances for the possible Churchton move. I found a really nice camera for only $249 that I would like.
After Best Buy, Greg and I headed over to Benningan's for a late lunch. While there, my friend Daniel calls to tell me that he's in town! Daniel moved to Florida in March of 06. He came up in Sept of 06, and we went out and had fun. So, Daniel made his way to Bennigan's and we hung out for the rest of the day! I had a blast with him. Greg stayed until about 9:00pm. After Bennigan's we all headed back to the townhouse and Greg took care of Amelia while Daniel and I chatted and got caught up in the gossip and such. Daniel was asking a thousand and twelve questions about Greg and I. Last year, before Daniel moved to Fl, he told me that Greg likes me more than a friend and I was like 'yeah right' and such. Daniel knew that I was starting to like Greg around that time as well. So, Daniel is so excited that Greg and I are togehter (and it's not because of Amelia, as Daniel wanted to make sure). All the while Daniel and I were chatting, Amelia was very fussy upstairs. So, Daniel and I went upstairs to help Greg. Amelia flirted with Daniel so much, it was cute. Daniel took tons of pictures of Amelia and me, or Amelia and him. I told Daniel that Greg and I were looking at a camera very simular to the one Daniel had, so it was nice to acutally get to play with the camera. Daniel also showed me his 'cool toys', referring to his new laptop, PSP, and other accessories. Greg fell in love with the headphones Daniel had for the PSP. I, fell in love with the PSP; I've been wanting one of those for years. Daniel has just bought the PSP so he didn't have any games or anything for it; just the movie that he watched on the flight up. So, I was playing around with the PSP and then Daniel tells me that I can have it! He doesn't use it enough to want it. Daniel gave me his PSP!!! Daniel spoils me so much! He's given me his surround sound system, iPod Nano, his PSP, and he said that once his gets the laptop he wants (the one he brought was a gift from his dad and isn't want he wanted), he's going to give me that as well! Of course, I'm not going to be counting on the laptop to happen anytime soon. But still! Greg was telling me to give the PSP back to Daniel and Daniel kept telling Greg that he doesn't want it. So, I have a new toy! Which is cool because Greg spent a good chunk of the weekend playing Diner Dash on the DS. Yep, that's right; Greg is hooked on Diner Dash! I knew I would get him.
Later in the night, after Amelia was finally asleep and Greg at home, Daniel and I sat outside and chatted. While we were outside, some neighbors were setting off fireworks (the ones not allowed into MD). Daniel and I were outside until sometime after 11 and then I went to McD's to get us some snackages. After the snackages, Daniel took a nap and I stayed up to make sure he woke up to get Cory. About 12:30am, Daniel left and I went to bed (after calling Greg).
Sunday:
Sunday was great! The weather was awesome!
I had a slow start in the morning. Amelia slept until 8:30am. We ate and played until 9:30 and then she took a nap until 10:30 (and I took a nap right along side her). Once the nap was over, Amelia and I hung out with Sean and Aaron who were setting up the internet on the PSP (I didn't know the Network Key to set it up and since Sean's laptop is out of order... well, you know). Once that was all done, we were playing with the PSP and Aaron's PS3 and trying to sync them. But, I need to upgrade my software in order to do so. So, I worked on that but I was unable to complete because I didn't have enough battery power left. So, I left it alone for the rest of the day.
Once we were all done playing with the PSP/PS3, I ran out to Hardee's to pick up food. Sean and Aaron hate picking up food, but they don't mind paying for my order if I go get it. I am so loved by them. I swear I don't know what they are going to do once we've all moved our seperate ways. So, after we ate, I took my shower and played with Amelia until she fell asleep. At which I started to get everything together for the Rolston Social Club!! The first Sunday of every month, Tim and Brooke host the Rolston Social Club. Greg and I went back in May, missed June, and then we went yesterday.
We arrive at the party a little after 2:30 and hang out outside. Good times were had by all. I took some really great pictures and I can't wait to upload them, as soon as Sean fixes the laptop.
Greg and I stayed until 7ish and head home. I don't get home until around 8pm and when I arrived, we had guests! Sean and Aaron had invited Deb and Alex, their new friends. We hung out and chatted for a bit. I put Amelia to bed around 8:30 and then hung out some more. We ordered pizza, ate and had a merry time.
I went to bed around 10:30 and the rest is history.
Today, Monday, has been pretty low key. I've been catching up on work and voicemails all the while working on this entry. I've also been 'window shopping' on eBay for some movies, games, and accessories for the PSP. So far, all I've bought was a charger since Daniel left his at home in FL. Also, I am thinking of buying a new cell phone off eBay. I am so frustrated with my current phone, a Sony Ericsson. My previous phone was a Sony Ericsson and I am having the same problems and I had with the other model. So, I am done with this brand. I am looking into LG and Samsung. Nokia doesn't offer anything interesting and I don't like the set up and layout of Motorola. I am very picky when it comes to my cell phones. It's really sad when I think about it.
I am so ecited about or plans for Tuesday night. A group of us (99.9% of Greg's friends/co-workers) are getting together to see Transformers in Columbia. I have never been a group date this big! I believe Greg said something along the lines of nearly 30 people! So much fun!!!
It makes me feel really good that Greg has opened up so much in including me in his 'other' life. I get along smashingly with Greg's co-workers (all of them) and when we were at Tim and Brooke's party last night, I had a great time! Tim and Brooke's friends are so funny! I can't wait to upload the pictures from the party.
When Greg and I first became friends he did not want me to meet any of his co-workers, who were his 'other' friends. He liked to keep everything and everyone seperate. Now a days, he's asking me if I want to go to so and so's party, or a group outting and things related. It just makes me feel special that he's including me.
Well, I am going to do more 'window shopping' on eBay. Have a great Monday!
28 June 2007
Nothing in Particular
*Sigh*
I was suppost to be moving in today. I'm trying to not think about that. Greg says if I continue to think about it, it will just make me depressed and he's right.
It's been pretty slow this morning for work. So, I've read my news articles and comic strip and then begun playing with the DS. I am so addicted to Diner Dash! It just gets more and more challenging for such a simple game! Greg says it's not his type of game. His loss. But, I like simple minded games. Games are to be fun and to help relax; I don't want to play a game that's going to stress me out (as some of his games do). To each their own.
I've asked Greg numerous times to call him Mom and ask her how long it took for the apartment complex to inform them that they were approved, since she is the one they did in fact inform. He won't do it. He doesn't want to know and then keep waiting for that time frame. I guess if we don't hear anything by tomorrow, he'll call. I guess. We haven't really talked about that option.
On Friday, Greg and I are going to look at a few other places and then head down to Annapolis so that I can file my divorce papers. I sent a text to my girlfriend, Kara, to see if she's going to be in town as well. I haven't seen Kara since January when she visited me in the hospital before Amelia was born. We played MadLibs. She's so quirkey and I love it! She and met a little over six years ago. We met when we both started working at PRP. We were in the same training; and we've been friends ever since.
Not much to write about at the moment. Maybe, later in the day, something more exciting will happen and then I'll have something to write about. But, in the mean time, I am going to try and beat Diner Dash (damn level 8 in the Retro Diner).
I was suppost to be moving in today. I'm trying to not think about that. Greg says if I continue to think about it, it will just make me depressed and he's right.
It's been pretty slow this morning for work. So, I've read my news articles and comic strip and then begun playing with the DS. I am so addicted to Diner Dash! It just gets more and more challenging for such a simple game! Greg says it's not his type of game. His loss. But, I like simple minded games. Games are to be fun and to help relax; I don't want to play a game that's going to stress me out (as some of his games do). To each their own.
I've asked Greg numerous times to call him Mom and ask her how long it took for the apartment complex to inform them that they were approved, since she is the one they did in fact inform. He won't do it. He doesn't want to know and then keep waiting for that time frame. I guess if we don't hear anything by tomorrow, he'll call. I guess. We haven't really talked about that option.
On Friday, Greg and I are going to look at a few other places and then head down to Annapolis so that I can file my divorce papers. I sent a text to my girlfriend, Kara, to see if she's going to be in town as well. I haven't seen Kara since January when she visited me in the hospital before Amelia was born. We played MadLibs. She's so quirkey and I love it! She and met a little over six years ago. We met when we both started working at PRP. We were in the same training; and we've been friends ever since.
Not much to write about at the moment. Maybe, later in the day, something more exciting will happen and then I'll have something to write about. But, in the mean time, I am going to try and beat Diner Dash (damn level 8 in the Retro Diner).
23 May 2007
I HATE DAVID RIGGS
I am so pissed right now. I haven't felt this angry in a long, long time.
Here's the story:
A little history...
Dave and I have been friends since 1996/1997. We met online and in April 1997 he flew from TN for us to meet. He was a freshman in College and I was a senior in HS. We did the online/long distance dating thing for nearly a year after we met. Dave was my first for everything. I ended it with Dave in July 1997 because of Jay even though Jay and I never move on with our friendship/relationship also because of my choice... but we remained friends for a couple more years until we lost touch around 2000/2001
2003/2004...
Dave and I start talking to each other again and it's like there wasn't anytime between us. We started talking on a regular basis and for long periods of a time. During some of our marathon conversations, I would receive phone calls from other friends and would do a 3 way conversation and one of those said friends was Melissa. Well, after a few weeks Dave and Melissa started talking and they developed a relationship that lasted a few months. Dave and I talked nearly every night for 2 years...
August 2006...
Dave moved to OK with his friend Trish and her family. I didn't have Trish's phone number so I would send Y! messages or emails to him without any responce. Melissa would keep me updated because she still talked to Trish. Melissa gave me Trish's phone number and I called and left a message and never got a reply...
Today...
This morning I sent Dave a text message asking him if we're still friends or should I say good bye. A few hours later he replies with good bye. And my reply was "Seriously, after 10 yrs" and he said "Yeah babe... good luck with life" So this starts a conversation where he tells me that he's decided to cut all ties with everyone and from his words it sounded like Trish, his friend that he's living with, asked him to do this because there is so much 'drama' going on. I asked what he was referring to because he and I haven't talked in nearly a year, even though I've attempted numerous times to keep in touch with him, and then stated that it sounded like Trish was being controlling. In the end, Dave tells me "LOL, whatever!... Please just leave me alone babe..." and I stop texting him. THEN, a few minutes later Trish starts sending me text message telling me where do I get off saying she's controlling Dave. I in responce told her that that was my interpertation of what Dave said and that obviously it was a misunderstanding and she relied with "K".
Then Dave accuses me of lieing! He tells me that I never called and left a message for trish or him whereas I went through my old cell phone statement and provided him the exact time and day that I called both numbers. In the end he still chose to drop me as a friend. I said fine, his loss and asked why he was being an ass to me and his reply was because I won't leave him alone and my FINAL reply to him was "Fuck you, Dave. YOU are the one who ruined what was a great friendship. You've changed since last summer and not for the good." and Dave replied "Well, I have changed! I can recognize a game when I see one! Please please please just leave me alone." I reply with "What game? If you're going to ignore me please provide an honest answer as to why." and he replies with "Okay, I'm gonna ignore you!" and I reply with "That just proves you don't have an honest answer. Fine. I'm done trying." and he replies "Is that honest enough?" and "What do you want? That's an honest answer" and I reply "You're telling me that I am nothing but a game. What game are you talking about? And all you say is that you're goign to ignore me, and I don't see an honest reason why. I have barley talked to you and I am confused about what u mean by game." Then, after about 5 minutes Dave sends a reply that states "Goodbye".
I am done. David E. Riggs is a piece of shit and isn't worthy of my friendship anymore. What an asshole. Dave, if you ever find this blog, I want you to know what a fucking asshole you are. You're spineless and can't stand up for yourself. No wonder you can't keep a girlfriend or a job. You deserve everything that you get in your life from now one. Fucker!
Here's the story:
A little history...
Dave and I have been friends since 1996/1997. We met online and in April 1997 he flew from TN for us to meet. He was a freshman in College and I was a senior in HS. We did the online/long distance dating thing for nearly a year after we met. Dave was my first for everything. I ended it with Dave in July 1997 because of Jay even though Jay and I never move on with our friendship/relationship also because of my choice... but we remained friends for a couple more years until we lost touch around 2000/2001
2003/2004...
Dave and I start talking to each other again and it's like there wasn't anytime between us. We started talking on a regular basis and for long periods of a time. During some of our marathon conversations, I would receive phone calls from other friends and would do a 3 way conversation and one of those said friends was Melissa. Well, after a few weeks Dave and Melissa started talking and they developed a relationship that lasted a few months. Dave and I talked nearly every night for 2 years...
August 2006...
Dave moved to OK with his friend Trish and her family. I didn't have Trish's phone number so I would send Y! messages or emails to him without any responce. Melissa would keep me updated because she still talked to Trish. Melissa gave me Trish's phone number and I called and left a message and never got a reply...
Today...
This morning I sent Dave a text message asking him if we're still friends or should I say good bye. A few hours later he replies with good bye. And my reply was "Seriously, after 10 yrs" and he said "Yeah babe... good luck with life" So this starts a conversation where he tells me that he's decided to cut all ties with everyone and from his words it sounded like Trish, his friend that he's living with, asked him to do this because there is so much 'drama' going on. I asked what he was referring to because he and I haven't talked in nearly a year, even though I've attempted numerous times to keep in touch with him, and then stated that it sounded like Trish was being controlling. In the end, Dave tells me "LOL, whatever!... Please just leave me alone babe..." and I stop texting him. THEN, a few minutes later Trish starts sending me text message telling me where do I get off saying she's controlling Dave. I in responce told her that that was my interpertation of what Dave said and that obviously it was a misunderstanding and she relied with "K".
Then Dave accuses me of lieing! He tells me that I never called and left a message for trish or him whereas I went through my old cell phone statement and provided him the exact time and day that I called both numbers. In the end he still chose to drop me as a friend. I said fine, his loss and asked why he was being an ass to me and his reply was because I won't leave him alone and my FINAL reply to him was "Fuck you, Dave. YOU are the one who ruined what was a great friendship. You've changed since last summer and not for the good." and Dave replied "Well, I have changed! I can recognize a game when I see one! Please please please just leave me alone." I reply with "What game? If you're going to ignore me please provide an honest answer as to why." and he replies with "Okay, I'm gonna ignore you!" and I reply with "That just proves you don't have an honest answer. Fine. I'm done trying." and he replies "Is that honest enough?" and "What do you want? That's an honest answer" and I reply "You're telling me that I am nothing but a game. What game are you talking about? And all you say is that you're goign to ignore me, and I don't see an honest reason why. I have barley talked to you and I am confused about what u mean by game." Then, after about 5 minutes Dave sends a reply that states "Goodbye".
I am done. David E. Riggs is a piece of shit and isn't worthy of my friendship anymore. What an asshole. Dave, if you ever find this blog, I want you to know what a fucking asshole you are. You're spineless and can't stand up for yourself. No wonder you can't keep a girlfriend or a job. You deserve everything that you get in your life from now one. Fucker!
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